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Do These 5 Things This Year to Live More Deliberately

  • Writer: Curry Forest
    Curry Forest
  • Jan 3
  • 5 min read

Updated: Jan 15

Simple practices for growth, presence, and connection that transform your days.


What if, instead of letting the year carry you, you leaned into it? Here are five things you can do this year, not as a checklist, to live more deliberately.

Living deliberately means acting with intention rather than momentum. It is the ongoing effort to align how you spend your time and energy with what you value most, instead of letting habit, pressure, or convenience decide for you. Attention is central here. What you notice, protect, and return to shapes the life you are building.


1. Plant a seed, figuratively.

Of course, you could plant one literally; a small herb on a windowsill, a sapling in a backyard. But consider the metaphorical seed: an idea, a project, a dream you have been carrying with you for a while.


In nature, growth is rarely linear. A seed might sit dormant for months, even years, before breaking through the soil. It demands patience, attention, and faith. You cannot force it to grow, only provide the right conditions: sunlight, water, and time.


The same is true for ideas and intentions. A well-tended idea may seem invisible for a long time, yet its roots are deepening, gathering nourishment from experiences, learning, and reflection. They require small experiments, and the time to allow them to unfold.

Plant your idea or intention today to commit to the future. Even the smallest gesture can germinate into something significant over time. This is a practice mindfulness; a way to honor possibility, even when the outcome is uncertain. Living deliberately begins with planting a seed. It is the choice to commit to a direction without demanding immediate proof. This practice shifts attention from results to intention, and asks you to invest in what matters even when growth is uncertain.


2. Simplify your surroundings.

Simplifying is often thought of as a matter of tidying a desk, decluttering a closet, or deleting old emails. But the deeper practice is less about things, and more about surroundings: physical, digital, even mental. Our surroundings shape what we notice and value. Clutter competes for attention, and fragments our focus and energy. By reducing excess, we create space for what truly matters.


Our minds, our schedules, and even our relationships carry their own clutter: thoughts that repeat without purpose, obligations accepted out of habit, connections that drain more than they nourish.

Unresolved ideas, unexamined beliefs, draining interactions and unhelpful habits, take up mental space that could be used more deliberately, and releasing what is unnecessary makes room for clarity and presence.


When fewer things compete for your attention, it becomes easier to notice what you are choosing with intention and what you are carrying out of habit. Weighing love, value, and meaning over inertia or obligation creates internal clarity that mirrors external calm, making room for reflection, creativity, and a more deliberate unfolding of life.


3. Move your body in a way that feels joyful.

Movement is not a routine to be perfected or a goal to be measured. It is a conversation with your own body. Walking, stretching, dancing in your kitchen, or hiking a trail, each movement carries its own lesson and pleasure.


You do not need an exercise plan to be active. Life itself offers countless ways to move, and being present in your body is often more valuable than following a program. Carry groceries, climb the stairs, play with a child, tend a garden, or simply stand and reach toward the sunlight streaming through a window. These are not lesser forms of movement. They are ways of inhabiting your body with awareness and care.


Movement also nurtures the mind. A slow walk can untangle a knot of thought, a few stretches can release tension that clouds judgment, and even dancing without purpose can awaken joy that no amount of sitting can summon. The body moves, and the mind follows, finding clarity, energy, and sometimes unexpected insight along the way.


Joyful movement brings you back into the present moment. It interrupts the tendency to treat your body as a tool for productivity or self-correction. When movement is chosen for how it feels rather than what it achieves, it reinforces attention, presence, and care, core conditions for living deliberately. It teaches patience with your body, curiosity about your own limits, and gratitude for what you can do today.


4. Act on something you learned.

Learning is not just the gathering of knowledge. It is the act of letting what you discover augment your life.

A new recipe succeeds only when you taste the dish and nourish yourself. Meditation only takes root when you practice. A skill or craft only grows when you try it and make mistakes. Learning is not complete in the mind alone; it requires you to move your hands, your body, every day.

Small, repeated acts compound over time. When you act on what you learn, you allow knowledge to move from the abstract into the living world, where it can nourish your days, deepen your understanding, and transform how you see yourself and the life around you.


Acting on what you learn keeps your life from becoming purely consumptive. Deliberate living requires crossing the gap between insight and action, however small that action may be. Without this step, learning accumulates but nothing changes.


5. Reach out to someone without expectation.

Write a letter, leave a message, or call someone, simply to say hello. Reach out without any expectation. Just offer your time and thought. You do not control how it will be received. If the receiver reciprocates, it nurtures warmth. If not, the act of reaching out itself nurtures the giver.


Life is full of noise, of responsibilities and distractions that pull our attention in many directions. To pause and recognize another person, simply to witness them, to honor them, is a gift. These small gestures may not change the world immediately, but they can shift the contours of your own heart. In giving without expectation, you cultivate your own presence, generosity, and the awareness that connection starts with you.


Reaching out without an agenda shifts connection from transaction to intention. It reminds you that relationships are not optimizations to manage but values to practice. Deliberate living extends beyond personal habits into how you show up for others.

Live Deliberately:

These five invitations help you move through the year with intention, curiosity, and a gentle sense of purpose. None of these actions are dramatic on their own, but each is a way of choosing attention over drift, and intention over default. You may not do them perfectly, and that is the point. Life grows not from perfection, but from attention, care, and small, consistent actions. Take a walk outside. Watch how light changes, how air smells, how the familiar feels different. And let them inspire the next five invitations you choose for yourself this year.


If these 5 invitations resonate, pass them along to friends and family. Invite them to reflect on these practices of growth with you. ❤️



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